What To Do..........

Recently, I put a boyfriend out and told him not to come back, because of circumstances that I didn't want to tolerate anymore. He's been gone a month and today is his birthday...........I asked the opinion of my sister about what to do.............she told me to act like I forgot............and not even make the effort, otherwise he might think he had a chance to come back...........hmmmmmmm. Well, I've considered that and still I realize that I would feel bad if someone didn't remember my birthday.........he was very good to remember the little things and act upon them. I feel that I was callus enough to send him packing. I really am having a tough time with this decision.......lol.