Ah, there's nothing like a good get to gather with family and friends. Good food, jokes, laughter and gathering around the fire later to swap stories. Men, mostly get off in the other room so they can light up their cigars and cigarettes while sipping on a good shot of whiskey or such. You may hear all kinds of remarks from that room. So, if your one of the proper family members, it's best to go to another part of the house.