Why is it that when you are trying to move to a new place, no one is around to help you? You have to pay someone to help and it's a huge bill, after all the extra's are added. You find that the friends you thought you had, are not available. The fact remains, that you can help them all you want, but when it comes time for them to return the favors, they can't be found, their back can't handle it or some excuse. WTF !