Have you actually made a date from one of these sites? I did find it a fun thing to do, back several years ago, when all this was first coming into light. I wasn't fascinated by the person, and even cringed when I saw him in person. Yet, I gave him an honest chance to prove my first sight doubts. It was with relief that I made my way to my car later that evening and left for my apartment. I never went back, never returned his calls or emails because I didn't wish to pursue it further. I had a decent evening, meeting him and visiting with him, but wasn't ready to jump as fast as he was encouraging into the type of relationship he was wanting. .